Groom & Bride
Our Story
We grew up in the UK and Germany, each exploring our home countries — and somehow, we found a new adventure in each other. Over time, our connection turned into plans, and plans into a home and choosing a life together.We feel very lucky to share this moment with you as we begin the next chapter as husband and wife — Mann und Frau.
Laura Jane
Jan Helge
This wedding is more than a day. It’s a moment to honour where we come from, celebrate who we are becoming, and begin married life surrounded by the families and friends who guided us along the way. We are proud of the life we’re building — and even more grateful to celebrate it with all of you.
We can’t wait to raise a glass, share a hug, and fill the dance floor.
Wedding Events
Wedding Party
- Schloss Herten, Herten NRW, Germany
- Guests will be seated at: 2:45PM
We couldn't imagine a better place to celebrate with you than Schloss Herten — a beautiful moated castle surrounded by water, trees, and just the right amount of fairytale atmosphere. Hidden in a peaceful park in Herten, this historic castle offers elegant rooms, lovely gardens, and plenty of space for hugs, laughter, dancing, and raising a glass (or two). We're so excited to share this special place with you and can't wait to celebrate together in such a magical setting.
Dresscode — Castle Chic
Please wear elegant wedding clothes suitable for a formal celebration in a historic castle.
Examples include:
- Midi or long dresses, elegant jumpsuits or smart separates;
- Suits, or tailored trousers with a shirt and jacket.
Jewel tones, soft pastels, warm neutrals, muted florals, and classic black are all welcome.
Please avoid white, ivory, and cream, as these colours are reserved for the bride. This is formal wedding attire, but not black tie.
The colours shown below are for the bridal party and groom only. Guests do not need to match this palette and may wear any elegant colour they like.
Sunday Morning Breakfast (Optional)
- Near Schloss Herten, Herten, Germany — venue to be confirmed
We would love to gather one last time on Sunday morning for a relaxed breakfast before everyone heads home.
This event is not yet finalised. We are still looking into suitable venues near Schloss Herten and will confirm the location, timing, and all further details closer to the wedding — once we have a better sense of how many guests would like to join.
If you are interested in coming, please indicate this in the RSVP form below. Participation is entirely optional, and there is no obligation to attend.
Travel & Accommodation
Location
Our wedding celebration takes place at the beautiful Schloss Herten, a historic water castle set in a scenic park in Herten, North Rhine-Westphalia, located in the northern part of the Ruhrgebiet. For convenient parking, a large, well-lit and video-monitored public lot is available at the nearby LWL-Klinik, just a short 4–5 minute walk from the castle entrance.
The castle is located in the industrial heart of Germany, offering a wide range of nearby hotels and holiday apartments, many of which can be booked easily via Booking.com or Airbnb.
Recommended Hotels Nearby
Schlosshotel Westerholt
Driving distance: 10 min
PLAZA INN Recklinghausen
Driving distance: 15 min
Parkhotel Engelsburg
Driving distance: 15 min
Things To Do Nearby
Making the most of your trip to the Ruhrgebiet — here are some of our favourite spots and experiences within easy reach of Herten.
Recommended Activities Nearby
Zollverein Coal Mine
Essen — 20 min
UNESCO World Heritage Site — industrial architecture and museum.
Gasometer Oberhausen
Oberhausen — 25 min
Europe's largest gas storage tank turned exhibition hall — spectacular views from the top.
Phoenix des Lumières
Dortmund — 35 min
Monumental digital art projections in a former gas plant — a stunning immersive experience unique to the Ruhr region.
Photo Gallery
